In the world of beekeeping, there exists a tender and age-old tradition known as “telling the bees.” This custom, rooted in folklore and steeped in reverence, involves informing a hive of bees about significant events in their beekeeper’s life—especially the death of a family member or the beekeeper themselves. While it may sound curious to modern ears, the practice reflects the deep relationship humans have historically shared with these industrious insects.
The Origins of Telling the Bees
The tradition of telling the bees can be traced back centuries, with variations found in Celtic, English, and other European folklore. It was believed that bees were not mere insects but vital members of the family, deeply attuned to the life of their keeper. If kept uninformed, bees might fall into grief, stop producing honey, or even abandon their hive.
In the past, beekeepers would approach the hives and whisper the news of a death, often accompanied by rituals such as draping the hives in black cloth or tying a ribbon around them. Some traditions even included inviting the bees to the funeral, ensuring they felt included in the mourning process.
The Role of Bees in Symbolism
Bees have long been associated with mystery, wisdom, and the cycles of life and death. In many cultures, they are seen as messengers between the natural and spiritual realms. Telling the bees was not merely a quaint superstition but a way to acknowledge their interconnectedness with human lives.
In some stories, failure to tell the bees of a death led to misfortune: hives stopped thriving, honey soured, or swarms flew away. Conversely, including them in life’s milestones—births, marriages, and deaths—was believed to ensure harmony and prosperity.
A Reflection of Connection
Modern beekeepers may no longer adhere to these traditions, but the sentiment behind telling the bees remains relevant. It speaks to a profound respect for nature and an acknowledgment that our lives are deeply intertwined with those of the creatures we care for.
For those of us who work with bees, this tradition is a reminder of their pivotal role in our lives and ecosystems. Whether tending to a hive overlooking Penistone’s hills or marveling at the gentle hum of worker bees on a summer day, it’s impossible not to feel a connection to their quiet, purposeful existence.
Preserving Tradition in Modern Times
Though the practice of telling the bees may be less common today, it offers an opportunity for reflection in a fast-paced world. For some, reviving this ritual could be a way to slow down and honor the natural cycles of life. For others, it might simply be a fascinating glimpse into the cultural history of beekeeping.
At Staincross Apiaries, we’ve shared countless stories of how bees enrich our lives—whether through the golden sweetness of honey or the simple joy of watching a hive thrive. Traditions like telling the bees remind us of the mutual respect and care that have long defined the beekeeper-bee relationship.
A Thoughtful Gesture of Remembrance
Next time you visit your hives, consider sharing a quiet moment with your bees. Whether you have a story to tell or simply wish to reflect, these small acts of connection are part of a timeless dialogue with nature.
In a world that often feels disconnected, the simple act of telling the bees reminds us of the profound and enduring relationships we share—not just with these remarkable creatures, but with the earth itself.
At Staincross Apiaries, we cherish these traditions as part of our ongoing journey with beekeeping. If you’d like to learn more about the lore and practices of beekeeping, join us for one of our hands-on experiences. Together, we can keep these beautiful stories—and our buzzing companions—alive for generations to come.